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Psychotherapy

What Happens In Hypnotherapy?

September 20, 2019 by admin

First and obviously, hypnotherapy involves hypnosis. It magnifies the power of traditional and well known therapeutic techniques like Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, Strategic Therapy, Transactional Analysis, Counselling, Neurolinguistic Programming, and emotional, mental management.

In the way, we help you is to coach you in the ways your mind-body works as a wholistic system in a psychosocial ecology, that is in the relationships that define and effect your life.

Hypnosis allows us direct access to and influence with your background subliminal unconscious part of your mind. In the way we use it, you will gain much more freedom of choice in the reflexes, habits, fears and cravings that may leave you feeling yourself out of control.

The number of sessions required will depend on the goals you have.

 
First session = 80 minutes.
First, we do an assessment process looking at
  • the problems,
  • it’s place in your life and background,
  • Then your goals – what would your life be like without the issue
  • then we’ll explore various strategies for solutions you can use consciously to change your relationships with the problems and solutions.
  • Then we’ll use trance to help embed in your unconscious the solutions that will get to the deeper sources of the problem and embed the solutions into your reflexes.
  • You’ll get some homework to help empower you to embed the solutions and the new approach into your lifestyle with what the changes will mean for you in your relationships (intimate, friendships and work).
  • Finally, we’ll look into the future to see and feel what the new lifestyle, that is the solution, and most importantly, how you’ll apply the new freedoms to choose to unexpected possibilities, when under stress, so as to ensure the solutions will last in ways that get you to your goals for life.
Second and following sessions = 50 minutes. Counselling & Coaching to support the process of change, building your sense choice and empowerment for embedding the changes into your new lifestyle, clearing blockages and dealing with unexpected consequences in your health, relationships and work life.
 
Background Considerations. Remember that every habit is part of a whole system that is your emotional and relationship lifestyle. For example, your friends and family (maybe work) will have been making all sorts of adjustments to help you and for them to live with your habits and behaviours to fit with your lifestyle. The changes you want to make will affect them. Even if they support you in the changes, you are making these changes still involve work on everyone’s part as you all evolve into the new empowered self free of the problem.

Filed Under: hypnotherapy, NLP, psychotherapy Tagged With: body, counselling, executive coaching, hypnosis, hypnotherapy, Life Change, life coaching, mind, mindbody, Neurolinguistic Programming, NLP, placebo, psychology, psychosomatic, Psychotherapy, trance

14 Reasons Why Hypnotherapy Fails?

March 11, 2019 by admin

Hypnosis is easy. Most people can learn various formulae for inducing a hypnotic trance. It is what you do with the trance that is where the real work and expertise is. The problem is in the second half of the word “hypnotherapy”, that is ‘therapy’. Therapy is what we do with the hypnosis. In general, it is possible to combine it with most forms of psychotherapy; it enhances and strengthens them.

Many so-called hypnotherapists use formulaic scripts that don’t work for everyone. They are using a shotgun approach for a target, your problem, that needs a sharpshooter. These scripts are the reason people think hypnosis is not for everyone.

The truth is trance is natural. Everyone is going in and out of trance all day and every day. It is the standard we all use to judge how entertaining movies, novels, games, conversations are. And also whether we’ve had a good day at work. The more thoroughly engaged, absorbed you become in any activity the more fun it is. These states are most powerful when there are elements of interaction.

Even the apparent active-receptive version that is the surface of a hypnotic session – one person or group of people being hypnotised by another – is interactive. It is interactive in the way a novel is interactive, because the receiver/reader/hypnotised creates the whole experience in their mind, from the words spoken/read.

You can learn to be better at giving yourself to these absorbing activities by understanding how to manage your attention, your mental and emotional states, and your relationships.

There are plenty of simple versions of hypnotic trance we often experience where someone is guiding us. Such as the guided visualisations you may have experienced in many sports and athletic training, in relaxation and stress management classes, in Yoga and meditation training, even in situations where people are teaching you how to learn better. They don’t have you dancing the funky chicken, or doing anything you don’t want to. These are often generalised experiences and not targeted to help solve specific problems with an individual solution suited to your lifestyle.

Some people professing to be professional hypnotists/hypnotherapist read scripts you can download from online that are targetting for particular problems with a generalised solution. They can make you feel good but don’t teach you skills for avoiding relapse.

Hypnotherapy fails for some of the same reasons other therapies, including drugs, fail. They fail because they are not specific solutions tailored to your lifestyle, mentality, history, and needs. And because they are presented as magically able to fix you as if you are a broken machine, computer, without you being interactively involved in ‘your’ solutions.

The primary reasons Hypnotherapy fails are:

  1. You and your therapist assume hypnosis is the solution in and by itself.
  2. The therapist did not tailor your solution to your specific lifestyle and role in it.
  3. You aren’t truly ready to solve the problem, maybe the cost to you isn’t personal enough.
    1. The cost hasn’t become extreme enough.
    2. You are ‘trying’ to solve it for someone else’s sake.
  4. You, with the therapist, haven’t a clear sense of what your lifestyle will be like without the problem.
  5. You, with the therapist, haven’t taken into account how the problem affects your relationships.
  6. You, with the therapist, haven’t examined how the solutions affect your relationships.
  7. You, with the therapist’s guidance, haven’t taken into account how the solutions will affect your sense of self.
  8. The therapy caters to your magical thinking. You believe it happens to you, solving your problems without your participating effort.
  9. The therapy makes you feel good, without teaching you skills that let you manage your responses to triggers that may bring on recurrence of the problem.
  10. You haven’t coached or even asked your friends, family, lovers and workmates what you need to be the person you want to be without the problem and with the solutions.
  11. You, with your therapist, haven’t isolated the most profound source of the problem.
  12. Your therapist hasn’t educated you in the mechanisms that empower you to manage your mindset, your point of view, your presuppositions and mental-emotional processes in ways that help you solve the problems and make your solutions.
  13. The therapy is not client focused, but also lets the client stay problem-focused and leads with from that attitude.
  14. You didn’t choose a therapist that you feel trust, feel a real connection and comfortable with in a way that lets you follow their processes.

Choosing a therapist is central to success.

Filed Under: Coaching, culture, hypnotherapy, NLP, philosophy, psychotherapy, techniques Tagged With: CBT, Cognitive Behaviourism, how to choose a therapist, hypnosis, hypnotherapy, NLP, Psychotherapy, Strategic psychotherapy, therapy

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